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We celebrated Leif's dedication a couple weekends ago on June 17th at the Unitarian Church of Montréal. I got permission from Diane Rollert, our minister, to post the text of it.

(LJ-cut used to keep it from being too long)


Dedication of Leif Alexander Bailey, June 17, 2007

To the Child:
Leif Alexander Bailey, you have come with stardust in your hair, with the rush of planets in your blood, your heart beating out the seasons of eternity, with a shining in your eyes like the sunlight.

Your parents have brought you here to be dedicated, to celebrate the joy they have and to count themselves blessed that you are a part of their family.

As you grow, may you come to love what it is that your parents and this community of Unitarian Universalists value. May you learn to count the number of your days, to weigh their meaning, to gather into your mind the wisdom of your ancestors, to know why we call one thing right and another wrong, and to treasure beauty, mercy and justice in the deepest places of your being.

To the Congregation:
A dedication in the Unitarian Universalist tradition is one of the few sacred rituals we share together as a community. It is a covenant, a promise of love and care, that the entire community bestows upon a child.
Although Leif and his parents are leaving us to pursue new lives in San Francisco, they have chosen to dedicate Leif here in this church that has meant so much to them. Their travels may take them far away, but in this act of dedication today, we will covenant to continue to hold a place of care and concern in our hearts for Leif as he grows. Do you, as this religious community called the Unitarian Church of Montreal, take upon yourselves the privilege and the responsibility of helping to nurture the character and spirit of this child even at a distance?

Congregational Response:
We who are members of this congregation rejoice with this family in the promise of this child. We pledge him now the love and care of this community.

To the Parents:
Angie and Jeff, parents of Leif, please repeat after me this pledge. Leif, we pledge to help you to realize the best that is in you. We will seek, to the best of our ability, to instruct you by our teaching and by our example. We promise to love you with an unselfish love.

To the Child:
Leif, I dedicate you to the service of goodness, beauty and truth. I touch you with this water, which is a symbol of purity, and with this rose which is a symbol of your unfolding life, on your brow, your eyes, your lips, your heart and your hands, that your thoughts, your vision, your speech, your love and your generosity may be dedicated to the care of the earth and its people. We dedicate you that the transcending power of all that is divine may be present in you all your life long.


Closing Prayer:
Spirit of Life and Transcending Source of Love that connects us all, bless this beautiful child Leif this day and all the days of his life. As we rejoice in the promise of Leif’s life that stretches out before him, let us remember those no longer with us, especially Leif’s grandmother Glennis Bailey who left this earth too soon to meet her grandson, but whose memory and spirit will continue on through him. May Leif continue to serve with strength as his life unfolds so that the richness and wonder of life may be abundantly his. May peace dwell in his heart,and understanding in his mind. May courage strengthen his will and may the love of truth forever guide him.

Date: 2007-07-04 03:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thatanikagirl.livejournal.com
This is so very beautiful.

Date: 2007-07-04 03:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
Diane is an absolutely wonderful minister. We'll miss the Montréal church.

Date: 2007-07-04 08:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thatanikagirl.livejournal.com
Do you know of good UU things happening in SF?

Date: 2007-07-05 03:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
Not currently, but we're only just starting to explore. Since the work visa only officially came through this past Saturday, we've been focussing energy on making that happen. Now that it has, it unblocks a whole pile of things.

I've got a couple emails out to old Opus friends. Many of their contacts have changed since the mugbooks I have, though. There's definetly enough churches out here that I expect to find a decent set of folks!

Date: 2007-07-05 04:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thatanikagirl.livejournal.com
Yay! The visa came through! I'm sure you'll have no trouble finding good people in SF, UU or otherwise.

I hope you'll want visitors.

Date: 2007-07-05 05:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
Of course!

Date: 2007-07-04 04:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fvinnash.livejournal.com
Wow. I agree. That is beautiful. I "awww'd" several times in there.

I think I missed it somewhere that you guys are moving to San Francisco. But, Portland!

Date: 2007-07-04 05:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
Ah, mm. I guess that hasn't been announced yet to the interweb. =)

Date: 2007-07-04 08:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] diluvienne.livejournal.com
Congratulations!

But I am sad to hear that you guys will leave us... :-(

Date: 2007-07-05 03:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
We're sad to leave Montréal. We'd really like Leif in French schooling, though, so we're hoping to come back in time for that.

Thank you! Congratulations!

Date: 2007-07-04 11:01 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Thank you for sharing that beautiful ceremony! And congratulations on the dedication and the loving community you have found, and will always share with the Montreal group.

We, your extended family, promise to love you all with an unselfish love.

xoxo (Auntie) Christina, (Uncle) Randy & Rachel

Date: 2007-07-05 05:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] calla-lily.livejournal.com
Aw, so nice... I love UU dedications. When are you guys making the big move?

Date: 2007-07-05 07:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
End of August / Beginning of September. The hope is that we basically continue west after Opus.

Will we see you there?

Date: 2007-07-05 07:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] calla-lily.livejournal.com
Concentric yes (I'm a bizmod), Opus I'm still debating. But yes, I will definitely see you all soon. :)

Date: 2007-07-14 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jeboldt.livejournal.com
Just read the dedication now. Thank you for sharing this! It was deeply moving to me. I love how you are loving Leif and surrounding him with generosity, community and dreams.
Looking forward to seeing you all soon,
"Grandma" Janet

Date: 2007-07-30 11:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jbailey.livejournal.com
It was a wonderful service. He was really fussy until the minister took him and showed him off to the whole congregation. He then sat a just melted everyone's heart. =)

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